The majority of people always revere success, and abhor failure (because they consider it to be completely opposite of success).
But, in truth, failure is an integral part of success because it certainly contributes to the learning process.
You cannot enrich your knowledge, improve your expertise, strengthen your competence, or perfect your technique without failing and learning from the experience. If you avoid failure, you may also avoid success.
Life consists of a series of large and small failures usually rounded with success. Life is a process of continuous learning through your mistakes, it is dynamic process in which you can’t get it right until you get it wrong in the beginning. This means that failure is actually a delay, a detour on the road to success.
Every time you fail at something take a positive approach, because failure is not your enemy, but your friend. This will help you focus on the next try, because with every failure you’re closer to success. If you succeed in the end, it doesn’t matter if you fail 99 times. You’ll be remembered for your success, for that last try that brought you the success were striving for. In fact, a lot of the greatest successes that people remember and celebrate today came after failure.
Persistence, dedication and hard work are some of the key qualities of people who achieve their goals. They don’t let their failures stop them. Instead, they use their failures to learn and improve their personal skills and strengths. Here are 4 reasons why failure is the first step to success:
Failure Is the Road to Success
Failure is the perfect catalyst for success. It gives you the right perspective of success, and brings you closer to it by pushing you to work harder and get outside your comfort zone. It helps you realize the mistakes you make in your approach, and make the appropriate change so that you can continue smarter and stronger.
Instead of complaining about your mistakes, you should learn from them and try to become better. So, it is very important for you to realize that failure is not a definition of your abilities, but it is the road to success.
You can change your perspective by changing the way you think and say things that are on your mind. For example:
“What can I do better?” instead “What did I do wrong?”
“How can I improve myself?” instead “Why am I not good enough?”
“Who can I help get better so that we are better as a team?” instead “Why is that other person failing us?”
Failure Teaches Perseverance and Endurance
It is much easier to quit chasing your dreams after failing. However, if you are a person who wants to succeed, you have to understand that failure is not tragic at all. In fact, you should treat failure as a teacher and not undertaker. You shouldn’t give up on your dreams just because things didn’t work out the first time.
If you’re determined and decisive, you’ll realize that all your efforts are not just wasting time. When you fail, you should immediately look for a different approach and continue working even harder and with more enthusiasm. This teaches perseverance and endurance, as it helps you to remember how important your goal is, and why you should never give up. If you want to be a successful person, you won’t quit when things get tough, instead you’ll stick to your goal until you succeed.
Successful People Are Not Afraid to Fail
Successful people take action as soon as possible without being afraid of failure. They are actually excited about experimenting and getting involved into something that could bring results.
Trying over and over again is the secret that successful people apply in their lives every day. They take actions even when they know it won’t bring them perfect results. They fail forward by learning from their mistakes, experimenting, practicing and trying new approaches. This attitude makes them even more successful.
Successful People Use Failures to Succeed
Failure is a stepping stone on the way to success. Successful people analyze their failures and learn from them in order to improve themselves. Don’t get too emotional, forget about all the pain you felt when you failed for the first time. Instead, focus on your next move that will lead you on the right way to success.
To succeed, it is very important to be flexible, and to adapt a different attitude towards failure. You should take things under your control and don’t let failure lead your life. This is the best, and actually the only way to achieve great things in life. Always remember your dreams, never give up on them, and move on with your head held high.
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Failure is the stepping stone for success Swallow defeat
23 Aug 2012, Vol 0 Issue 1
It's almost impossible to go through life without experiencing some kind of failure. Failure is a part of life; everyone has experienced failure at some time or other.
“Only a man who knows what it is like to be defeated can reach down to the bottom of his soul and come up with the extra ounce of power it takes to win when the match is even,” legendary boxer Muhammad Ali had once declared.
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Yet the greatest barrier to success and one of the biggest fears in life that people have is - fear of failure. It is also the major reason that holds back people from realizing their full potential and achieving their goals.
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Fear of failure immobilizes you, restricts you to your comfort zone, prevents you from moving forward in life and hampers your chances of success.
Defeat is not easy to swallow. There is no worse feeling than facing failure. Failure leaves you bitter, miserable and depressed.
It is then not difficult to understand why most people are afraid of failing. They prefer to play it safe by restricting themselves to their comfort zone and avoiding any risks.
But playing it safe can also be risky. It puts you out of action. You choose to forgo potential opportunities and push yourself into mediocrity. When you restrict yourself to your cocoon, you keep yourself from tapping your full potential.
Failure is a matter of perspective. Many think failure as the opposite of success. But failures are in fact the stepping stones of success. Nothing worthwhile in life has ever been achieved without a series of failures. Failure is, as James Allen has rightly pointed out, one of the ‘pathways to attainment.’
Buckminster Fuller, the renowned American philosopher, architect, and inventor, popularly considered to be the father of American landscape architecture once said, “Whatever humans have learned had to be learned as a consequence only of trial and error experience. Humans have learned only through mistakes.”
Fuller has to his credit 28 patents; has authored 28 books and has received more than 60 honorary degrees.
Successful people also make mistakes. They also fail but they don’t give up. Instead they remain steadfast. They overcome their fear of failure and are quick to learn from their mistakes.
There are numerous examples of celebrities, sportspersons, actors, authors and leaders who inspite of facing defeat did not give up on their dreams. They succeeded in overcoming their fear of failure.
Michael Jordan was cut from the school basketball team; Steve Jobs was fired from his own company; Warren Buffet was rejected by Harvard University, Richard Branson is a high school dropout, Abraham Lincoln lost eight elections and Thomas Edison, failed more than 1,000 times when trying to create the light bulb.
Failure did not keep these great people away from achieving their goals and becoming extra-ordinarily successful.
As Emerson said, “Life is a series of experiments, the more you make the better. Each failure is a trial in an experiment and an opportunity for growth. Even if a failure costs you financially, the educational benefits can far outweigh the loss.”
Overcoming fear of failure is a major factor toward the achievement of goals. The highly successful people are not the most intelligent, most gifted or blessed.
They are just ordinary people who view failures as temporary speed breakers on the road to success. They are successful because they have developed the skill of learning from their mistakes and are willing to move out of their comfort zone and take calculated risks.
When you try, there is no guarantee that you will succeed. But if you don’t try, you are sure to fail.
So don’t let fear of failure hold you back from reaching out for your goals. The key to success is not avoiding failure but to overcome the fear of failure; learn from your failures and use them to build yourself up.
"Failure should be our teacher not our undertaker.
Failure is delay not defeat.
It is temporary detour not a dead end." –Denis Waitley
The Author is a Motivational counselor, Speaker, Ophthalmologist, and Author of 'Principles of Success Made Easy-14 Easy Steps to Climb the Ladder of Success'